Hello... Minions... Lol jk XD
So I noticed this incredible Group and yet no one as dropped one.word.
Hmm...
Here's my question/scenario,

What would you do if, you... Stole your ex car, just for
few hours to go on a date, with someone he has his.own.reasons to hate.
The date.was awesome however.... Now the question is..
How do I get them.to look past that bullshit that happened.
And.I continue seeing my ex(who's friend) and buddy, who
So happens... Well lol.. He's that good ;$

What Would You Do? Please do not respond with, don't see buddy again.
That's waaaaaaaaayy out of the question... Emphasis on how on i spelt
Way. Lol

Edit: look past the bullshit that happened Between them*

Hm ... I guess time would be the only really helpful answer to looking past all the bullshit. You could probably admit your part in it but that may just make things worse ... so I'd go with time and wait.

Your Drama is yours, and theirs is theirs. What I mean is they should not get you caught of their bullshit no matter what ... its Juvenile. But if he knows about the stolen Car, I would apologize about that.

Again, Time and the occasional apologies is best. But it may end up having to come to terms where you have to pick one or else risk losing both; good luck.
But If you think about it, your ex became your ex for a reason right? So it may be easier to try and find new ground.
Now what I would do is try to figure out WHY they hate each other to start. From there I know what I'm balancing and playing fire and oil with, and where my limitations are. At that point it depends on how I would move my chess pieces.

Thank you for the response kido

I beleive your right...

Option 1) time.
Option 2) ask what happened.

I haven't asked, nor will i. It already happened. Can't change that,
However I did accomplish on getting them to talk yes took a few
Bullets to the chest but! They did talk... My goals to get them to
Accept I want them both... Seems selfish but the ex became the ex,
Cuz he can't handle me the way buddy does, besides that point he's
A Gem.
Hmm.... Here's a question..
How do you get a guy to get over his jealousy? Without hurting him.


Ps. I apologized about the car, but made no difference, more upset
About who I was with... *eye roll*

well i would say its about impossible to have him not jealous
only when he has a new friend and you may stand a chance but maybe some talking will help a lot
you also may ask him directly wether he minds u and his friend to have a romance (but this may cause a lpt trouble and be really hurting so i wouldnt do that...) its just a really difficult situation...

Hey Nagatal thanx for the reply, im so sorry I haven't logged in for awhile but I do appreciate the reply thank you. I don't want to go into detail what happened but bottom line is my friend moved away.. I'd like to close this thread, If it's cool with you guys just have a admin take it down please..