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December 12th, 10 03:28 PM
Stoner

heh, lm more the type to stand behind.. put metaphorically l am the type who supports rather than stands out front as l like to be the building block that leave something behind that can be cherished ^_^
December 12th, 10 02:19 PM
devilove

I love you. You're one of my best and closest friends. If you stood in front of me I'm sure that I would cry from happyness
Now I have to go because I embarrassed myself for life
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December 11th, 10 12:16 PM
Stoner

heh, lm an easy going guy.. while lm not exactly into the subject matter of this site (lm here to help the owner and the sites member) its all good fun as theres tonnes of cool peeps around here.

besides its always cool to be asked my opinion or advice, it allows me to use my experience for something constructive.
December 11th, 10 03:40 AM
sweet sakura

hi stoner thanks for letting me change my name lol i hope we can b friends cause it might b really fun n u seem so freakin awsomes heehee
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December 10th, 10 11:38 AM
Stoner

not a problem ^_^ lve got all kinds of advice and information floating around my brain.
December 10th, 10 08:44 AM
devilove

Thank youfor the help
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December 10th, 10 03:48 AM
Stoner

id be glad you were honest with me if l think of it from my own perspective and how l would act, but that would depend on how long l was allowed to believe something that wasnt true, but when concerning online stuff its allot different l think because its harder to draw the line on certain truths so you go with what you know based on what one has said, in my case l can read between the lines and read into honesty because of past experiences before this site.

all l can say is honesty is the best policy and if that person didnt respect you for been honest only only talked to you because he thought you were female, as much as it hurts to say.. he wasnt worth your time, because if l put myself in his shoes but with my own perspective it would make me stop talking to you, besides by the sounds of it he was interested only in the possibility of being a woman, and knowing most guys online the relish the possibility of a webcam session (l should know, lm quite partial to to a steamy webcam chat lol, l have one girl l do that with every so often to let off the usual male tensions that guys get without a significant other to release them on lol)
December 10th, 10 12:20 AM
devilove

You're so nice with me. I'm so happy that I know you. But I can't say that he is wrong, I just can't. Can I ask you something - what would you feel and do if this happens to you, from the point of view of the boy.
Wish you to find your love.
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December 9th, 10 11:46 PM
Stoner

some ppl just cant accept certain things in my opinion, first and foremost one of the most respectful things you showed was honesty, that in itself is an amazing quality.

with that in mind you have to accept the fact that no matter how much you dont want to hurt someone, you are not going to make everyone happy, and those that dont accept honesty are not always worth ones time especially if you consider times have moved on, theres nothing wrong with being gay, it was the other guys mistake as he made an assumption and while its upsetting l dont see it as your fault and it in no way makes you a bad person.
December 9th, 10 10:08 PM
devilove

If I'm so good why I hurted so many people. My last sin is from this week. I tried to raise the mood of one boy from my country. He is very good boy but he tormented himself about that he is 20 years old virgin. I told him that this isn't bad and some ther good things. But I didn't mention that I'm gay because I didn't want other people in the site to laugh and talk bad things about him. Also I didn't want to crush his confidence that some gay is saing such good thing to him. I told him that I want to met a guy like him that is romantic and cares about others. But I didn't mention that I'm gay. He thought that I'm girl and leaved his e-mail to know each other. He said such a good things about me, I was so happy that forgot about that he didn't know that I'm gay. I thoght that if he know me better this that I'm gay wouldn't matter at all. This happened Tuesday and Wednesday this week. On his second letter he said that wants to know better such a good girl like me. I was deep hearted about that but I told him the thruth that I'm gay. He stoped his letters. This happened yesterday. I think that I'm dieing with every second, he is even in my dreams. I don't know what to do. I hate my-self about that I hurted him so much. That day I wished so much to be born girl but I'm boy, gay boy. Why I always hurts the people. I don't know what to do. I hurted him so much, so so much. I wish that I was never born. I wish I could turn back the time but I can't. I didn't want to suffer about such thing like that he is 20y virgin. Only thing that I made was to make him suffer deeper, to feel betrayed. I just can't accept that I am a good person.
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