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Tritium July 1st, 11 04:03 PM

Mmmm, masculine straight guys! Kinda makes ya wanna corrupt them!!!

~Beatrice~ July 2nd, 11 01:59 AM

oh jeez i have a friend who i knew since grade 2 i only just developed feelings for him because he's a person who acts gay but is strait (my whole school is like that) 1 time he hugged me and like kissed my head and then it was like INSTABONER i was embarresed and like 2 days ago he got a new gf >:[

*pulls out bag of weapons and book on killing strategies*

Tritium July 2nd, 11 05:05 AM

Nah, it's not right to take someone else's life. Find yourself another scrumptious hunk of a mannnn! mmm!

namisan July 2nd, 11 10:44 AM

I think almost everyone's been down this road at some point in their life. Unfortunately its happened to me wayyy to many times.

rikusora July 5th, 11 08:25 AM

I couldn't tell if it was lust or love. But It pained me to be near my best friend during high-school.

Tritium July 21st, 11 07:18 PM

So many people suffering because of unrequited love! We should form a club, lol.

kitsu July 30th, 11 08:57 AM

I'm one of the three "No".
Hey, calm down guys! haha. I've never felt in love, that's why...
Guess I'll have my chance to join the club soon Tritium.

Tritium July 30th, 11 09:06 AM

Well, this is a club in which we're not happy to welcome new members. The broken hearts club. I've never recovered from my first unrequited love, guess I never will.

DragonSky July 30th, 11 11:16 AM

Yeahh, my ex-best friend. >.>
A year or two ago, I told her. She was okay with that since she knew I wouldn't try anything and we were friends for quite a while, until she got a boyfriend. >.< Not because I was jealous, she was. We met her boyfriend at this party, and I kinda liked him too. She just turned into a complete attention-whore/bitch. I'm sad it turned out that way, but well, nothing I can do about it. >.> And now, I'm sure she's mad at me. Why? No idea.

Tritium July 30th, 11 11:18 AM

Ah, better to hate people altogether, rather than have your heart broken, loving them, and knowing they'll never be yours.

DragonSky July 30th, 11 11:22 AM

But, dear Trit, hate won't get you very far in this world.~

Tritium July 30th, 11 11:25 AM

Eh, I just said that in the heat of the moment. It's true that it won't get me far, but at least far enough to feel avenged for all my feelings gone to waste, lol. Anyway, if u wanna talk about this, we'd better use vms, otherwise the mods will scold us for digressing.

reaper August 10th, 11 12:02 AM

I think everyone,weather heteralsexual,homosexual or bi-sexual,has or will experience this at least once in thier life.

I allowed myself to fall for a guy,whom I knew right from the start would never feel as I did. We are very good friends. I am and always will be a big brother,mentor,adviser and protector. But never his lover.

Tritium August 10th, 11 09:53 AM

That hurts like hell, to always be near someone, and yet for that someone to seem so far away, practically out of your reach. The drama of unrequited love.

Reyzur August 15th, 11 03:52 AM

Yep. The typical gay guy in love with his straight best friend.

creepy29 August 15th, 11 04:09 AM

this summer has sucked so far ive met a really great person and we have almost everything in common but of course he's straight. story of my life :p

Tritium August 15th, 11 06:37 AM

Eh, I've never fallen for a guy before. I wonder how it's like.

Okami September 19th, 11 01:45 PM

hm i guess i'd say...
neither yes nor no
cus i never was REALLY in love with someone i couldn't have.
atleast from what i can consider to be love. but it may was fondness, and yes i really liked them, and maybe had a crush on them...
it beats me up too, cus i cant help to think about how it would be/could have been with them. sometimes im doing this for hours... then i "wake up" and realize that i wont ever have this anyway... sucks :/
and i never told anyone that i liked them more then like the usualy friendship kind of fondness.
constantly bit my tongue there :D
i prefer to keep me friendships as they are...

Saravin October 1st, 11 02:04 AM

During senior year, I sat next to this amazingly hot guy. Too bad he would never think of me the same way. :\

Tektek October 16th, 11 01:18 AM

Sadly yes......I have..:(

KyuremuRawr October 25th, 11 12:51 AM

Ugh, I've had this giant crush on this super hot nice kid at my school, same grade as me. He's like... irrefutably straight it seems. Made me feel like it was a waste of a year crushing on him. But I've never asked him directly, don't have the guts for it >_<

Princess Link December 9th, 11 06:40 AM

I was in love with a childhood friend, and the only reason I say it was love is because these feelings lasted for years. Unfortunately due to who I am, how I am, etc. I could never be with her but I've gotten over it because I realized how much about her I hate. :D

Okami December 9th, 11 11:15 PM

i think it is finally happening for me now...
never thought that would be possible...

how wrong i was...

GermanYaoi December 29th, 11 10:52 AM

Well , I think most of those who are gay often fall in love with heteros.
And if theres a hetero who might be gay, I'm even to shy to ask "how are you?"

Senji December 29th, 11 05:07 PM

It happened to me two months ago, i felt in love with a handsome guy, who was extra nice with me and i felt tha's went on between me and him (Tall, green eyes, blond hair like a surfer, pecs and abs, and really handsome, with a big package [He sleeps in underwear]) and i decided to tell him what i was feeling for him, all that for him to answer me that he was straight and he was dating a girl for one day ! Poor me. I still a little bit love him. T_T"

axysses January 4th, 12 12:49 PM

I think I'm pretty lucky... I've yet to be attracted to anyone (or am I unlucky?!). I realised that my "crushes" have been nothing but admiration for certain guys.

Senji January 4th, 12 07:06 PM

In general, i love straight guys. Poor me ! T_T

spicie January 10th, 12 09:19 AM

I really like a guy in my grade, cute, funny, fun to be around, we've been "friends" since 7th grade, we know each other and have fun when we're together in a class but don't hang out outside of school and what not. He doesn't seem 100% straight, but I'm not sure, he's also a water polo/volleyball player so he has a GREAT body, no body fat at all, 6 pac, but still lean and not overly muscular, doubt I'll ever do anything about it, I was actually considering to apply to the same colleges as him and basing my choice off of where he went. Dumb idea right? Realized that before turning in apps but I'll definitely miss him once we part ways at the end of this year :(

zNatsu January 14th, 12 01:47 PM

@axysses: same here, you just cant call that love i guess. eheh

heythere January 14th, 12 04:43 PM

yup, i have and still do, 'til this day.
the best part about it is it doesn't hurt me, as long as i'm by his side.


.. of course i'm talking about my bestfriend! what closeted/bi curious guy doesn't crush on their uber straight male bestfriend xD at least we were comfortable enough for me to see him in the nude ;3 hehehe ^_^

i'd love to play "just the tip" with him lol, but it's wayyy too risky. if i lose him, especially to something like that, i'd be torn.

revanche January 15th, 12 08:56 PM

So many yes response :(

ironizzi January 15th, 12 09:40 PM

Yes, totally!..............................

Hizoka September 25th, 12 08:02 PM

yes sadly back in high school in my senior year i had a large crush on a kid in his freshmen year never told him and started to become friends with him until i was accused of stalking him that ended the friendship right there *sigh* ive had a few others like i had one and i think i still kinda do on my best friend that ive known for years but sadly and painfully hes straight and what makes it worse is that he knows that i have feelings for him but luckily we r still great friends lol

~PlatinumCream~ September 25th, 12 08:25 PM

Oh... I had my share on that. I had a close friend of mines since elementary school. My mom was close with his mother so yeah. In middle school, every time I saw him I get bashful and start talking to others like I'm not looking at him. But I knew that he had someone else so we just friends. Up to now and all. ugh.. -_-;

DMC7199 October 28th, 12 03:04 AM

Ex-boyfriend >_< Well, I don't really love him much anymore; but obviously there was a few months after the breakup of me still loving him and wanting him back. Then you realize that he was a jerk anyway and just become bitter and angry instead! xP

Also there was someone who I talked to online years and years ago who I fell in love with, and when I finally told him, he told me to fuck off xD Oh well, such is life!

The lesson is don't love people that break up with you...or somethin' like that!

Deimho November 1st, 12 11:55 AM

All of them straight guys, rarely find any gay/bi guys that even attract me a little x_x

PipitxLink November 6th, 12 10:24 PM

I liked this one guy in my high school, but never gathered the courage to tell him, mainly because I was afraid it would ruin our friendship if it went south.

voumcule November 29th, 12 11:11 PM

I did....loved him for years....then we finally did something and he rejected me

Sora Bom November 30th, 12 12:55 AM

Very much so.... I fell in love with a really good guy friend :I, but he is straight.
It really hurt whenever I saw him with a girl that he always told me about and asked
for advice on how to get her. Poo.

Ex_SeetherYaoi December 19th, 12 11:52 PM

Yes
 
Okay so there was this one time when I was younger, this girl was in my class and I really like her but she was with someone else. It broke my heart.


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