Ever loved somebody you couldn't have?
 

I'm in love with somebody at my school. And it sucks... Yet it doesn't at the same time too. I just love to be around them sometimes, yet I know they'll never love me back. I just wish they knew how I felt, but I'd probably be beaten by them...

Anyways, have any of you felt this way?

yeap, I'm in love with my friend he is so cute but he is straight and when I told him that I love him our friendship almost over (that was so sad)T.T

I love someone i meet over the internet, the sad thing is that she lives across the world and already have a boyfriend ._.

Question is, who doesnt have someone they love but can never have lol. It's like asking someone if they are human :P

I know that i've never been really in love. But i'm still young, so it doesn't really matter...

Ahh, too true. But then, people just like to know their not the only ones, myself included. When you feel so strongly for someone it's very hard to sit there and feel like it's normal.
To answer the question, yep, and it hurts, but the friendship we share is one of my most cherished one. And it's always nice to know when someone doesn't feel awkward about the feelings you have for them =)

I love my best friend. We've known each other since we we're kids. Sucks though, he already loves a girl. And I can't tell him what I really feel. I can't risk our friendship if it's the only thing I've been holding on to survive. I'll just be contented to see him happy.. without me being a part of it. :(

too fast, too soon
 

I've been in love with my ex-bestfriend (long-story), ive known her for 10 years+, and when i told her i loved her, we started dating for 3 months, then thats when i blew it, i started going to fast, and that ended are 10+ year friendship. I've not talked with her in 2 years, and i still love her and miss her. :(

Always.
Though it wasn't like all taboo relationships, so to speak, it was more one-sided on my behalf.

Dear agent_orange69 in my humble opinion I can't agree with your last sentence. You'll always be part of his life and happiness, no matter what. What will he do if you go away from his life, how he will feels about it ??? You're very special to him after you are best friends and from so long. You know each other so well, share the good and the bad sides of the life. You know that so well. Maybe one day you two will be one part. Life is full with mysteries and twists. Can I ask you something - does he knows you are gay ??? You don't know what awaits you from the next corner. :)
I wish you all the best and many luck ;)

Yep, and yet I still went to great lengths for that person. It wasn't until I looked back on it a few years later to see how stupid I was.

I fully agree with Devilove and I want to add from myself that don't think about it.You're a very good friend,if you think about your best friend.In my opinion you need to find an another second friend(penfriend),who will understand you.Personally I think,that you want to speak about all (about everything that happened in your life,problems and so on),and you understand that with the best friend you couldn't speak about everything.
-In the russian language we have one interesting phrase "we must pay for all our actions"(За всё надо платить)

Of course I have.. ><

I have and this individual is fully aware that i love him, sadly we both know that it must not be so. I am glad that there is still some love between us just in a different form. And that is satisfying enough to keep my mind at ease

ive never been in love just in like and i like this kid and have for 4 yrs straight it sucks cause he knows and he's been using and abusing my feeling for him

@yaoiabyss I have felt the same pain as well. it hurts a lot doesn't it? tell me your situation and will share mine with u

Yea, I have had the same problem. I have fallen in love with my best friend, T.T but he is straight, and what is really funny is that he thinks I am too. :D

yeah but he's 100% straight :(

Well,RIGHT NOW I'm in love for somebody who will never love me....at school...at first I wasn't in love but after a year I got a daydreaming with Him followed by...kinda of pheromones attraction..now at school I try to be as close to him AND STILL have daydreaming but well...me and him are not even friends,But LUCKILY for me I will granduate soon and will forget about him....I think

Who hasn't? I'm currently crushing bad over my roommate... so it's one up from just crushing on a straight friend, I fecking live with him. >_<

Yes I have...I'm shy that's why. v.v

Yeah, my best friend. I really do love him but he's clearly straight. When I did tell him how I felt he was actually very nice about it. He turned me down an wished me luck but the way he did it made me love him more for being so nice about. We're still friends with no awkwardness at all. Since I can't have him I just continued to do my best to find someone who can make him happy.

i like this guy alot but (just my luck) he's straight. Uggh lve know him for 11 years and it just sucks because i really want him to know how i fell but i dont want to ruinin our friend ship.

Yes, many times.

well i just found out that my best male friend is after my best female friend i knew she was after him but i luvvvv him very much :(

I used to I thought I was in love with someone I had never met who lived miles away who was fit and nice, so I thought but he wasnt ¬.¬ When I got the courage to tell him he was like "Yeah it's no problem I don't mind but I don't share the feelings" I was fine with that but when I said "I hope this dosnt put any awkwardness between us" he said "There is no us! No friends" I got so pissed! And when one of my friends who I told sent him a message he ended it with "Fuck off bitch! Fuck you, Fuck him, Fuck Everyone! I don't care about his feelings!" Yeah, no I went from wanting to go to his town and be all lovey dovey with him I went to... I'LL KILL YOU IF I EVER SEE YOU!

:/

Twice. Once with a guy I only know online, but he has a boyfriend. The other is single, but he's straight.

i'm not bragging but girls love me and i'm more interested in men (i'm bi)
i really wanted to say in front of them that i'm bi

There's a boy in school, well actually there are 2 boys. One is a basketball player, and one is just your typical, normal, average person. I love the basketball one, and I have heard it from his comrade that he has a crush on me. When I go to that basketball boy, I asked him if he has a crush on me, and he said "yes." And so I was the happiest boy in the world because I also have a crush on him too! So I was by his side during that day. And then the next day, I saw him with a girl and I ask a friend of mine, what's their relationship? And my friend said "Didn't you know? That he's girlfriend." I was so shock and when I got home I cried and cried and cried until my eyes can't take it anymore, and I hate him after that.

Then there was the average guy. I really like him, and he also likes me (but doesn't bother showing it). During our Graduation Ball, I told him about my feelings for him, and he was shock about it. And I ask him if I can be his Valentine, and somehow, he said yes, and then my cursed friend timed us for 15 minutes, and that was annoying. But today, I don't see him often, and I want to see him really bad! When I see him, I want to hug him like there's no tomorrow!

Yup, here comes another one in the line of broken hearts. I really did love somebody very much. She was my classmate in high school, and that was about 4 years ago. She was a nice, kind person, sadly she was already taken, so I had to keep my feelings a secret. I haven't heard from her anymore, truth be told I don't think she even remembers my name, lolz, bummer...

Sadly tried it both ways around.

You merely heartbroken once people tell you - no.
And you´re feeling guilty when telling ppl no.

Summed up what I was going to say. =/ I've been the receiver and giver of that sad word...

I'm in love with this dude i work with... He's just georgous, but he hates me. I know he's a dick, but he's kind of cute.

>.> I hate the people who act like dicks because they know they're cute and think they can get away with it.

I think I was in love with this one guy, I had never felt so amazing when I was with him. Always thought about him, always wanted to be with him. The only thing was that he was moving within a couple of months so he didn't want anything serious... He ignored me a lot and stopped talking to me as much after he noticed that I wanted more. I was, of course, heartbroken. But then I met this other really great guy and we got into a relationship and after that the other guy would try to talk to me again and say how he misses me. Ends up that he wasn't moving away anymore. But I didn't care, i was happy with who I was with. Sorry for my long story guys haha! :P

Sadly yes I have been a victim of the imposible crush. I could never tell them, I know it would end really badly. I would rather bite my tounge and still be good friends with them. Rather than say what I am really thinking and end up watching the friendship go up in smoke like the Hindinburge.

Damn, I was hoping you'd be free. So much for my luck.... sob.... Well, kidding, It's not about gender for me, but I wouldn't have the guts to be with another mannn. Besides, I'm on the other side of the world, lmao!

the love of my life left me for my ex-bestfriend.. how tragic

I have a thing for masculine straight guys, so yes. Damn you highschool