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Ventuskai February 14th, 11 07:54 PM

Valentine's Day, Do you love it, hate it or don't care?
 
I just wanted to ask to get people's opinons. Some people love it because they have a boo, or sweetheart who gives me them things and are truly in love with them. And then there are those that hate it, as they find it to be a ridiculous excuse to bang someone or get free gifts.

And then there are those like me, that don't care! xD

What side do you take?

rarara February 15th, 11 02:10 AM

You mean national singles awareness day!

Ventuskai February 15th, 11 02:16 AM

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Originally Posted by rarara (Post 13355)
You mean national singles awareness day!


That too xD

gretty23 February 15th, 11 11:48 AM

I hate valentines day every year I work myself up to tell my crush that I like them and chicken out at the last minute :(

BigBootyBoy February 16th, 11 05:20 AM

i love valentines! its not just for sex and love all your friends give you valentines like chocolates and lil poems :) but i do wish i had boo C: lol

ampzord February 21st, 11 09:55 PM

i was never one for valentines really, it's always been just like every other day.

Pyrocat3 February 22nd, 11 06:21 AM

I don't really like it and I really dont notice when the day comes. It makes the single people feel a little bit more lonely.

kitsu February 24th, 11 11:01 AM

Never received a valentine's day chocolate ;-; * tearsdown *
Actually i don't care about that xD just another day. And i'm single. ;3

mentaikodaisuki February 24th, 11 11:16 PM

i hate valentine cuz i see my crush walking with one they like or what so ever
but i got several chocolate~
makes me happy

humpakistani March 24th, 11 07:00 AM

Well i love the valentine day so much and i always want to spend this day with my girlfriend and want to fuck her on this day and she also want to celebrate this day with me

Okami September 24th, 11 07:20 PM

well, its a random day to celebrate the togetherness with your loved one. i agree that it sucks when you don't have someone like that, and the chocolate doesn't makes up for that imo >.>
but i like it, even though im single atm :/
i guess i don't have a option though, being the hopeless romantic i am :p
i still can fantasize *pouts*

(hooray for resurrecting threads)

Fable September 24th, 11 07:37 PM

It's a nice idea but always just winds up to mass commercialism, greed and exclusiveness. XD
The two Valentines days I was taken where even worse, my other half denounced it as a silly day that made people spend money simply to declare love, a thing which should be free, and she made me swear not to get her a thing.
She was right but I felt a tiny bit left out.

Okami September 24th, 11 07:49 PM

yeah, i agree with the commercialism issue ^^;
but its not like that you have to follow the mass :p

for me, only the idea counts^^
and just giving everyone chocolate is kinda dumpy anyway imo, atleast if thats someone who's close to you :p

rikusora September 24th, 11 10:33 PM

I'd probably care more about valentines when I actually get to be with someone. Till then I have no feel for it.

the warrior September 25th, 11 07:42 AM

It's a ridiculous day as far as i am concerned. I have never understood what all the fuss is about. The whole day is about having couples spend stupid amounts of money to "prove" they care and making single people feel like pariahs.

Lighthawk26 September 26th, 11 08:19 PM

barf
 
don't really care, not committed to a relationship, I don't really want someone "hanging" on me. I like the 'wam bam thank ya man" kind of deal I got. Still what a day to waste money 'proving" how much you love someone when saying "I lOve ya" is more than you think. :o

hiiru October 20th, 11 01:53 PM

Well, over where I live it's called a Friends Day... just to throw out a different view on it XD I've never really celebrated it aside when I was in school. They had a radio casting in the school on that day and they'd read Happy Friends Day wishes and anonymous crush messages that were sent in earlier.

So I guess in my country it's pretty balanced overall between friends and couples and it's not a very commercialized thing... I don't notice it being at least x)

I'm all for spending the day with a boyfriend but I don't really care one way or another personally.

Tritium October 20th, 11 04:24 PM

I've always found this hollyday quite hypoctirical, cause people I knew were desperate to find a bf or gf for that day and then dump them the next day.

UzumakiNaruto October 20th, 11 06:11 PM

I actually LOVE this Holiday... Mostly cause my Boy Friend's Birth Day is on Valentine's Day

^_^;; So Yeah... I love Valentine's Day

Okami October 20th, 11 07:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tritium (Post 73689)
I've always found this hollyday quite hypoctirical, cause people I knew were desperate to find a bf or gf for that day and then dump them the next day.

ugh.... that sucks bad -___-
what a dick you'd have to be to do that? >.>

but after all, its only about how YOU celebrate it, not how others abuse this day for making money or anything else~
and if you know the history of the day, it actually HAS something to do with love :D

loverslove1980 October 20th, 11 09:07 PM

I don't necessarily hate Valentine's Day, but I'm not exactly all that in love with it either.

Of course, that may just be because I'm bitter and single. XD

KyuremuRawr October 25th, 11 12:41 AM

I'm usually a bit sad on Valentines Day, cause I don't have a boyfriend ;_______; It doesn't help that I always associate Feb. 14 with the death date of my great grandmother >_<

Tritium January 28th, 13 06:06 PM

I neither love nor hate it.

wetdragon January 30th, 13 04:35 PM

well I for one do enjoy celebrating the St Valentine's Day Massacre by watching old gangster movies. :P

YourHero January 30th, 13 11:36 PM

I don't mind it. If I'm single I just ask a friend to be my valentine that year for fun. Just because you're single doesn't mean you have to sit around moping. Go out with your other single friends.

TNT February 2nd, 13 09:21 AM

Meh. If anything it's kinda annoying 'cause it reminds all us loners about our loneliness...

hylas February 4th, 13 10:30 AM

dont care either way at all.

~Beatrice~ February 11th, 13 05:09 AM

It's one the few days I get to throw my diet out the window and eat ice cream and chocolate in the dark solitude of my house while watching RomComs, screaming "WHY CAN'T THAT BE ME?!". Then I eventually watch something sad like the notebook, and then sleep.


So really I'm indifferent ^-^

alex27 February 11th, 13 12:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rikusora (Post 63074)
I'd probably care more about valentines when I actually get to be with someone. Till then I have no feel for it.

dont worry riku till we find someone we can go out for valentine we can be together watch old movies eating italian foor ;)

as for me i dont really care about it but truth be told valentine day its just a big cosmic bitch slap and universe telling you remeber when you were in high school fat short and you couldnt even get someone to look at you well apart from being fat nothing has changed -.-

UzumakiNaruto February 13th, 13 01:30 PM

-Gets out my Sniper Rifle and heads out to kill Cupid.- :I

Venussail May 10th, 13 06:37 AM

Love it now that I'm in a relationship, hated it when I was single.


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