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JakotsuLove7 November 30th, 11 05:04 AM

Kinda awkward but..;;
 
Ok so I have this 'friend' (bff~) who has a strange condition... His penis head is EXTREMELY sensitive. Hes not cut, but im not cut either but im not sensitive like that. He can only have sex/jack off/ blown, when his skin can flex over his head. If he keeps it back he says it hurts to much and the pleasure is replaced with stingy pain. We tried looking it up on google but all we get is porn, advertisements, and chat rooms that are just nasty... so we are turning here, do any of you have the same thing, had the same thing, and/or know how to get around it?:o

kitsu November 30th, 11 05:30 AM

Are you talking about phimosis...? If so, the solution is circumcision.

JakotsuLove7 November 30th, 11 05:50 AM

isn't there any other way? HE doesn't want to have his skin lopped off.

RobM November 30th, 11 10:10 AM

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Originally Posted by kitsu (Post 80066)
Are you talking about phimosis...? If so, the solution is circumcision.

Lol, fuck off. Cut pieces off your own dick if you want (or if you were even given the choice as a baby) don't advise others to have dangerous medical treatements unless you're a doctor.

You're clearly cut yourself or you wouldn't
a) have so little empathy to think circumcision is a totally simple, easy procedure that doesn't affect anyone at all.
b) not understand a fairly simple physical fact about uncut people; the penis isn't desensitised. You clearly have no idea what he's describing.

Protip: Even for Phimosis (which this isn't), no doctor in most of europe would ever suggest circumcision. Ever.


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Originally Posted by JakotsuLove7 (Post 80069)
isn't there any other way? HE doesn't want to have his skin lopped off.

Use lube or use condoms. Both are excellent at reducing the tugging friction. Quit tugging his forskin back half a mile, let it just rest behind the head and don't expose too much of the pale skin between the head and the base of the shaft - thats not meant to be exposed, in nature thats there to protect from injury - its full of blood vessels and isn't actually capable of feeling much pleasure... but it is capable of feeling pain as a warning.

Some people (myself included) are even more extreme cases than you described adn don't like too much pressure on the exposed head as pain can outweigh pleasure. Again, give head without sliding the foreskin back by focusing on the rim of the head or deepthroating. For sex, again, use condoms that are tight and restrict slippage to just a few centimeters.

kitsu November 30th, 11 12:47 PM

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Originally Posted by RobM (Post 80075)
Lol, fuck off. Cut pieces off your own dick if you want (or if you were even given the choice as a baby) don't advise others to have dangerous medical treatements unless you're a doctor.

No, I'm not a doctor and wasn't pretending to be one. Just happened that a member of my family goes trough that kind of problem and I was wondering if he actualy knows about it. Anyway, my answer wanst like "Oh, derp derp, THAT'S PHIMOSIS, derp derp, go and cut a piece of your dick off." Also, why the fuck someone would do, without thinking about the complexity of the "problem", what a random yaoi forum member says to do?


Quote:

Originally Posted by RobM (Post 80075)
You're clearly cut yourself or you wouldn't
a) have so little empathy to think circumcision is a totally simple, easy procedure that doesn't affect anyone at all.
b) not understand a fairly simple physical fact about uncut people; the penis isn't desensitised. You clearly have no idea what he's describing.

I'm uncut, and again, I'm not a doctor, to me EVERY cirurgical procedure isn't simple. As I said, just happened the similarity on his friend's problem.

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Originally Posted by JakotsuLove7 (Post 80069)
isn't there any other way? HE doesn't want to have his skin lopped off.

I'm not a doctor. lol

@RobM/JakotsuLove7
So, sorry if sounded like I was encouraging some unusual/not recommended method, that really wasn't the intention.

RobM November 30th, 11 04:04 PM

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Originally Posted by kitsu (Post 80081)
Loads of stuff and words of wisdom and admonition

Touche~
I guess I had a nervous twitch when I saw your post, I'm sorry in turn ^^

A better thing to say might be "Don't scare the poor soul!"

kitsu November 30th, 11 05:18 PM

@RobM

Like you scared mine? Holy fuck, the endless loop haruhi.gif never was so haunting.

@JakotsuLove7

You've got some good tips for your friend here, I'll leave the topic now, good luck for ya two~


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