What do you think about really girly gay gays?
... They are fine. I don't love all of them but some I really like. And if we're going for what 'kind' of gay people are, I suppose I fit more into the girly gay category than the 'straight acting' gay. I think whether someone is a 'girly' gay or not you need to be able to accept that even if you don't personally find them attractive. It's kind of unfair to make them seem like they somehow are less of a man because of their personality or how they dress. We might not turn you on but we 'girly gay' guys have feelings too you know.
Would you like a man's man, or a sparkly, or "so tan they look mexican" guy? (latinos are hot btw)
No preference really. I like guys who can have lots of different and surprising things about their personality. Like, a 'sparkly' as you put it who has a great personality and is fun to be with will make me as happy as a 'man's man'.
Where are the (gay) guys at! lol Are they scared to come out?
Why would they be afraid to come out? Is it because of the flaming ones they dont wanna be associated with? ( sadly that's my reason for telling no one i am bi except you guys 
, i could almost careless about what my family thinks at this time in my life, being 21 )
If your not "out" why? ( i'm not and it's because of the "Gay" lifestyle, i could go on and on.)
Look, I know you're bi and in the closet, and that's fine. If you're not ready to come out, then alright. But, you seem to actually be kind of homophobic. It's as if it's alright to be a certain type of gay, or bi, as long as you still act all manly. Even if you like 'manly' guys and consider yourself one that's no reason to blame other gays for you not coming out. There's nothing wrong with campness if it is how you want to express yourself.
Oh, I forgot to answer the question. >< Yeah, I'm fully out, not that it's the only thing I talk about. But if someone asked I would tell them, but I wouldn't wave it in someone's face for no reason and go on about it as if it's the only thing that makes me who I am. And if I was in the closet for whatever reason, I doubt it would be other 'gays' that would stop me coming out. It would be homophobes.
Finally, bi and gay guys reading this, what are you into? Winecoolers, britney spears and nothing but Hollister clothes, or Games, a beer and what most would consider "straight" conversation? ( now, i dont HATE britney spears, at a club it is fine, dont hate hollister they make sick jeans (without holes), and winecoolers taste a hell of a lot better than beer)
Um... If you mean hobby wise I like reading and watching tv/films.