RobM

I think a lot of these posts/threads seem to be jumping into the deep end and taking things only from their most extreme examples.

Being effeminate is something common to straight men as much as as gay and shouldn't be confused with being a Fem or an Uke. Besides, I think Ukes can be very effeminate without actually indulging in anything either camp or girly. I do know one or two highly camp and effiminate guys and frankly if you actually meet the the real-life people rather than (I assume) looking at Kamitora dickgirl art you'll perhaps see the reality of Ukes and girly guys rather than the most extreme examples from art or television.

I'm not a big fan of people complaining about it though, some people are gay, get over it.
Sounds like the thin end of the wedge saying that your comfortable with people being intolerant to anyone whose gay simply because they don't like 'flaming queers.' Thats just a characterisation and anyone posting here should know thats just a personality and being gay is next to irrelevant. I've met a few (although not many!) straight guys just as glorious.

Maybe its just my part of the UK, but in my group of friends they love going out with one of our flaming gay friends. How can you hate someone so warm, funny and friendly?

I've got to be honest, whether its your intention or not Lucifer but your OP post reads to me like; "I'm the good kind of gay, but can't come out because my friends are intolerant of the bad kind of gay and the bad kind of gay would give me a bad name."
Probably not your intention.