@reaper
you have a good point, but as you said its your point of view (or rather the way you feel its good), wich doesn't always applies for others^^
i that case i guess im somewhere in between xD
i agree with pamesan, that the best experience will be with someone you love, but i guess you can have a good time with someone else too, atleast when you know them a little.
im also not a friend of one night stands, but that is how i personaly feel about it
i just couldn't have sex with a total stranger (atleast not whem im sober lol).
so to answer, i'd always prefer to do it with someone im close to (friend/boyfriend).
exceptions for this didn't happen yet, and maybe that'll stay this way