can somoen give me advice

[creepy29]

Ok so heres the deal. I have a guy i like and well i relly want to tell the person but im not sure he'll take it well and wanna stop being my friend
and lately hes sort have bin ignoring me sort i think he might have figure it out and is creeped out by it. Ughh im so confussed. Has this every happend to anyone and has it turned out good?

[Dusk0104]

The guy I love but is 1000% straight was nice enough to not let it affect him when I told him (which was by no means easy. I spent like an hour working my way into it). We're still best friends. If you tell him and he discards you then maybe he isn't a real friend.

[kakashi_san]

if you tell him he may have a bad reaction at first, but you can't deny your feelings for him.
if he is your friend he must accept that you like him but not take it to heart.

[asdasd69]

this might be a supid question but..
-are you a guy or girl?
-from what you know of the guy do you see him as straight or gay?
-does he do anything that seems brotherly? or abit touchy, say patting your back, fooling around with you, or something like that..

-also try not to ask this person infront of the public, espcailly not at school. ( ppl tend to gossip and even tho you think their not listening, they are if its interesting)

-and finally.. how much have you been bothering him? I personally find it creepy if the person keeps following and talking to me, dispite being a friend.. I geuss it really comes down in how long you known each other. and how often that person starts a conversation with you, other then you always having to talk first.

Originally Posted by asdasd69

this might be a supid question but..
-are you a guy or girl?
-from what you know of the guy do you see him as straight or gay?
-does he do anything that seems brotherly? or abit touchy, say patting your back, fooling around with you, or something like that...

Trying very hard not to sound rude here, I mean this in the most honest and direct way... but the above post is completely correct.
Asdasd asks Good questions.
Without this information, how can anyone give advice?

@Creepy29
Giving background information like this as asked for is the difference (I think) between threads by people looking for advice and threads by people looking for attention.

Need moar~

[creepy29]

i've just decide to give up on the person. My friend helped me relize something if im going to miserable about someon who starts to ignore me for no reason and wont even reply to my text then that person isn't for he . And that makes sence so im just going to hope that i can get over him soon and find someboy eles

[lokefm94]

well i understand your opition, the same situation happened to me last year, i told my friend that i'm gay and for some weeks he was cool with me but some time after he started to ignore me (i think he figure out that i was in love for him) and when i decided to tell him the truth he started to avoid me and our friend ship is never going to be the same again and now the best thing to do is to forget persons that don't whant you. be brave and good luky ;3

[creepy29]

thxs lokefm90 i will