I am a virgin if you don't count oral. It's better to be a virgin than have your mate wonder if they're just another play thing for them to use and abuse like just another new toy they can get filthy. It starts by making the choice to wait for some one who is willing to get married then going through with that marriage to give yourself over. Honestly, people who'd go through all that trouble just to get inside your pants are fewer than the ones who'd tickle your ears for a one night stand in my view. You don't want people to doubt your decision capability and being seen as loose so being a virgin just means you have more integrity than most. Or that you're a horny guy who just never had the chance. Either way, it can be to your benefit to wait for something serious rather than being used.
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Words may lie but actions never do. Be sure that your actions are in harmony of what you tell those in your life or you may find yourself to be a hypocrite. I rather you hate me for who I am than love me for who I'm not.
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