please give me advise

[kibaxnaru101]

im having a problem : i met e certain guy named alexander on a gay site(for dating or just friend things) and we started talking both with the intention to just be friends. But now he is starting to like me(sexually) and we have a date (next weekend or the weekend after) and i am just NOT sexually attracted to him and he is constantly on msn and stuff saying he wants to see me naked or kiss me.

i don't want to hurt his feelings but i don't want to lose my virginity to him cause i want my first time to be special(i haven't even kissed a guy before)

please give me advise im desperate

Sounds to me like an impossible situation to resolve without either going out with someone you seem to make sound like a dangerous predator, or hurting his feelings.

I suggest the latter. Right-click him on MSN and select block. Take it as a good learning example of the dangers of getting in too close to someone over the internet before fully getting to understand what they want out of the friendship. If your not attracted to him and he's being very pushy then for gods-sake don't go on a date with him, you could end up a statistic and an alarmist headline on faux news.

Your probably not going to get a golden solution to this. Advice on the internet is just as hit-and-miss as dating on the internet (As you may have just found out the hard-way).

If you want proper, expert advice, go back to the dating site you found him on and look at their advice. This isn't a personals site, they are. They're the ones that give advice how to solve problems on their sites.

[pokemonmon]

seriously dude sometimes you need to break hearts in order to find the right one. if hes pressuring you into sexual things then he probably wanted that from day one anyways. just say no to him and if he doesnt respect your opinion remove him from your life. its hard but it needs to be done

[BeatlesGirl46]

That sounds like something similar that happened to me.
I had a pervert pressuring me to show him my boobs,but I just told him,"No. If you're looking for that,go to a porn site." Then I just blocked him and reported him for continuous harassment.
If the guy keeps on bothering you,say something like you already have a boyfriend (even if you don't have one) or just simply say,"No." Then block him and report him.

[kibaxnaru101]

well i blocked him so i wont have to worry bout him for a whle
ps: it may sound slutty but i found a nice sweet VIRGIN boy(not whining bout sex, well not in the bad way) and i have contact with him and its just sweet :$
well at least thank you very much

[pokemonmon]

yaaaaaaaaay lol