Tops and Bottoms

[Mushy]

Something I just read Sil say in another thread...made me wonder something. About the whole "seme and uke" thing. Not a fan of that stereotyping, but I don't hate on a relationship if someone likes to take on one role over the other. Maybe it's their personality, yes?

It made me think...are you a top, a bottom, or both? ^_~

I kind of laugh, because for anyone who knows me on other sites, I'm a spanko. And I like to be the one GETTING spanked usually. xD But when it comes to sex, I like the one that is GIVING it to someone else quite often. I switch back and forth, but I really, really like the idea of being the top for sex. ^_~

In other words, I sound a bit like I'm the uke, except when it's sex. Then I'm all RAWR my turn.

lmfao. I can't believe I just said that.
So, be it roleplay or something else...do you like to give, recieve, or take turns with both? ^_^ Who do you better relate to, if you can't honestly answer that question?

[Cross-chan]

Mm, I've preached quite a bit about this kind of thing, but, in all honesty... a lot of the times I like to be the one in control. Nevertheless, there are times when I like to not be so much. It's a mood thing with me, I think. => Sex is so and so. Like a bit of A and B... but... I kinda like to... meeeh. >3 But in spanking? I think I am more top than bottom, but switch, essentially? O_o [Confused]

I view rps, the rare times that I play, I don't really transfer myself to the characters. Is that odd? ^__^; Gives me reign to play most any role, really.

[Arkham-Insanity]

I am a switch...I always thought I was pure uke in spanking untill me and Gypsy got together and I found that I can...take and dish out!...and I get a thrill in being the spanker...watching those little buns bounch and hearing the spankee cry and wiggle in my lap.....and I love the feeling of my backside getting a good tanning...so I am right in the middle of it all

[Mushy]

Cross-chan, I think I know what you mean. I THINK. xD
It's really up to my mood as well, which is why nothing is 100%, but it's not 50-50 either. xD

xD Well admittedly, I'm not a sex person. I'm a foreplay ADDICT though, so it seems like I'm a fiend. lol.

I used to be able to roleplay or write and see from the perspective of a character I was nothing like. One that I couldn't put myself into. But somewhere along the line, I stopped, and I'm 100% sure that's why my writing suffers so. Dx

Arkham -
I tried spanking my partner. He wanted me to. I couldn't bring myself to enjoy it...I was jealous of him for getting what I wanted. =(
So I'm spankee most of the time. xD

[Arkham-Insanity]

Ha haa...thats funny...feeling jelouse that he was getting spanked and you wernt *giggles*
I must admit...if I was given the pure choice..I would always choose to be the spankee!

[Silberstern]

You're all so funny XD *rolls around giggling*

Hey, you know what? Sil's the most perfect seme you'll ever see :3 Spankee as I am (I know I'm switch, but ... y'know, I don't care right now), that don't fit quite well <<;

I'm too ignorant to care for stereotypes~ When it comes to sex, I'm the one giving. *cough yay for strapon cough*

I think many spankees are tiny semes ^^; Look at me, when I'm over someones lap, I still say what I want and what not, and I can stop it whenever I like, not like the spanker who never uses a safeword o-0
... I'm burbling senselessly ... Just ignore mee~

[Arkham-Insanity]

Whoot!!! Strap On!!!!

[Shaxel]

Ah my my such a loaded question this one.

I can say without a doubt that I am a switch, both in spanking and sex. Though I prefer to be in some form of control even when I'm submissive. So I guess I'm both a seme and an aggressive uke.

I also tend to be a foreplay addict. I LOVE to tease and torment until someone is just at the edge, and then deny them for just the smallest moment to make them crazy and then give them what they want.

Now spanking..I have to say I really like both sides of it but if I had to nail down and choose only one I would say spankee. But that's because I'm such a sadomasochist. XD

[Franco-Spain]

Well, now that I'm here I might as well open up.
I'm very submissive, both in spanking and sex. I just love to feel the sensations. In fact, I feel a bit sorry for the top, because as far as I can see, they don't get to experience as much. That isn't to say I won't try to top, or give someone a good spanking! After all, life is about learning, and the best way to do that is to experience. I guess with spanking, it comes down to me just being masochistic. I can't help but love certain "pain", heheeh.

[Sephy J Maxwell]

I'm only a top. I just can't bring myself to submit to sex, nor spanking either. I love giving both, rather than receiving... specially one after another!