How do you normally deal with people who want to know of your...

[RJPX18]

sexual orientation? Some people I can admit to easily, but people I don't know well and people with a less accepting attitude I don't say nothing to about it. Like today, my bus driver and monitor were asking me if I ever had ''pussy'' (Probably not appropriate on their standards, but I am 18 and it don't bother me much.) So I just said no and felt embarrassed. Then they got into how I should be getting something new everyday cause girls from 13-17 are the best blah blah. So it kind of left me in silence. Also I know some people who completely hate gay people so I just stay away from them also. >_>

[EmanGr]

Personally, i'm not gonna say my sexual orientation till i'm completely independent. I stay away from haters too. You should come out whenever you are ready, especially mentally ready. Remember, you don't have to say you're gay to people that aren't important to you. Your parents ought to love you anyway, you're their child, also if you tell it to a friend, and doesn't accept it, then he/she is not a friend. But more importantly, you must be ready! It's none of others' businness what you do in your bedroom!

[EriUri]

Originally Posted by EmanGr

Personally, i'm not gonna say my sexual orientation till i'm completely independent. I stay away from haters too. You should come out whenever you are ready, especially mentally ready. Remember, you don't have to say you're gay to people that aren't important to you. Your parents ought to love you anyway, you're their child, also if you tell it to a friend, and doesn't accept it, then he/she is not a friend. But more importantly, you must be ready! It's none of others' businness what you do in your bedroom!

I second that

[Samcroft]

Ok, if i want someone to know I drop it into conversation as if it's normal. For example, in work, there was a new girl starting and she took a fancy to me fairly early on, so I talked to her and mentioned in passing about hot men etc etc and she got the hint and backed off.

But generally, it's no one else's buisness, so I keep it as private as possible. not because I'm ashamed or anything, just because

[Pyrocat3]

it depends on if i'm comfortable with letting them know. Sometimes thought, i'll just mess with them and tell them what i'm not, then i'll tell the truth later.

[AurayaWhyte]

I'm not entirely sure of my sexual orientation at the moment, so I usually don't say anything, or just say I'm into humans. Either that or I ask them if they're asking 'cus they're interested. That generally shuts them up pretty quickly XD

[kakashi_san]

i usually make a joke of it and laugh it off. but i don't actually admit that i'm gay mainly because it would upset the natural order of my life.

[Nyr]

When people question my sexual orientation, I answer in a way that the person who's asking would like to hear It.To some I say stuff like "Yeah, I'm gay, wanna come to the toilet with me?" and they just laugh.To others, some of the more serious types of people, I just say "Are you crazy, I'm not gay!".And to girls...strangely, no girl has ever asked me that.And the pepole, who I'm shure will accept me OR are bi/gay too, I just tell them the truth - " Ewww, I'm not gay...I'm bi !"

[humpakistani]

Well if you are gay so it not need to not meet you anyone who don,t know you but girls and guys are the best oppurtunities in any field

I dont have that much experience with people asking me that lol, but aslong as theres no way it would get about to my parents (curse you, gossiping locals!) I generally answer honestly xD and though if the asker was asking in a distainful way, I would ask if he or she have a problem with it - Not that I'd particuarly care for their answer. but being quite a bit more than 6 foot tall, it lends a bit of weight to the response haha ;P