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pamesan · January 3rd, 12, 06:23 PM

Sorry if there is already such a thread.

What is sex for you?

For me it is something special...it is fun for sure but ill do it only with someone i love thats why i lost 4 boyfriends but the 5th is my now one and i wouldnt do it with any other one and i dont think i could do a threesome when i dont love the other person. Even though i see it as love act it doesnt mean i cant do everything i want yet i think its nothing you do when you are bored. For me it should be with an person you dont just have as random person...i dont like one night stands anyway and i never want to have one.

That is my way....
So tell your ways now you can see it as you want....If you want to tell YOU HAVE TO TELL THE TRUTH.
So welcome ^^

reaper · January 15th, 12, 01:38 PM

We,<the human race> are sexual creatures. Sex is as natural an instinct as the need for food. I agree,you should not just pick someone off the street to satisfy the need.A sex partner should be someone you know,someone you are close to,care about,at least some one you like enough to share a sexual experience with. But to deny one self the pleasures of sex,waiting for that one true love,<who may never arrive> is to me, denying one self,one of the greatest pleasures of life.

Please,I want everyone to understand. This is just my own oppinion and out look. I respect every individuals choice to,or not have sex. To the individuals who chose to wait for that special someone. I honestly hope one day you do meet them.

Senji · January 15th, 12, 02:12 PM

A way to empty my balls ? XD

Okami · January 15th, 12, 08:40 PM

@reaper
you have a good point, but as you said its your point of view (or rather the way you feel its good), wich doesn't always applies for others^^

i that case i guess im somewhere in between xD

i agree with pamesan, that the best experience will be with someone you love, but i guess you can have a good time with someone else too, atleast when you know them a little.
im also not a friend of one night stands, but that is how i personaly feel about it

i just couldn't have sex with a total stranger (atleast not whem im sober lol).

so to answer, i'd always prefer to do it with someone im close to (friend/boyfriend).
exceptions for this didn't happen yet, and maybe that'll stay this way

Cyanlicious · January 15th, 12, 10:55 PM

I may sound old fashioned but all my boyfriends will tell you the same thing I am about to I do not have sex at all with them until they know that they want to commit their life to me solely. I have been with my current bf for well in may it will be our 3rd anniversary so yay me but he is considering our engagement finally as something serious and not a joke. Sorry if the beginning sounded cold.Sex is something you participate in with your partner except the courtesans that use it as a profession. Please and thank you for taking time to read

Varné · January 30th, 12, 04:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cyanlicious

I may sound old fashioned but all my boyfriends will tell you the same thing I am about to I do not have sex at all with them until they know that they want to commit their life to me solely. I have been with my current bf for well in may it will be our 3rd anniversary so yay me but he is considering our engagement finally as something serious and not a joke. Sorry if the beginning sounded cold.Sex is something you participate in with your partner except the courtesans that use it as a profession. Please and thank you for taking time to read

I'll second that... Sex is not just for the fun of it.

**Tritium** · January 30th, 12, 07:12 AM

I've never had sex, but I don't think sex is just for fun. I believe it's the most intimate way in wich two persons in love can connect. If there are no feelings involved, if there's no love, then sex becomes just another cheap way for people to satisfy their phisiological needs.

Varné · January 30th, 12, 09:33 PM

Amen Tritium!

Leiladebxl · February 11th, 12, 12:59 AM

it's "paradise" when you do it with the one you like the most ! it's completely different with a "sex friend", partner or whatever. You just have to wait for the "one"

Caelninti · February 19th, 12, 04:34 AM

I'm sticking with the whole waiting thing for right now, I'm a bit young and I feel like it would be pointless to give it up to someone who I'm not gonna see after the next 4 or 5 months. That's just me personally though, I just find it something special, and I will only ever have one first time so I wanna be sure it's the right one and the best/ most special one. No commitment (long term no less than two years), then no sex. But that's just me...