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hornyteen91 July 11th, 09 01:33 PM

I like to be a top

bluecock July 12th, 09 01:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jamesadigue (Post 2396)
Eh?! cool... So you've experienced it huh? Wow... O_O

oh yes why? :rolleyes:

Nejimaru August 21st, 09 01:50 AM

I'm a top, though I don't think I'd say no to bottom...lol like 3/4 of one 1/4 of the other

NeekoNeeko August 21st, 09 03:49 AM

Umm well im a kinda passive person and i dont see myself being a top. So bottom then? =/
Its also kinda weird seeing all these ppl saying top. I thought most of the ppl here were bottom O_o

Ippiki_ookami August 21st, 09 03:53 AM

Haha, I'm a seme somethings both! Mostly seme >.>;; xD

NeekoNeeko August 21st, 09 03:56 AM

Im starting to wonder if some of you guys here are pedophiles lol
XD

Ippiki_ookami August 21st, 09 04:36 AM

omg I just realized I made a typo on my last post! xD

Pfft, the only pedo is Iruka-sensei who tries to get at Naruto >.>;;
xD
Iruka-sensei is a child molester! D:

potato12 August 21st, 09 09:53 PM

i dunno about this. but if i would choose, i would be both.

RobM August 22nd, 09 12:03 AM

We-eell, I too am from the fetish scene (And the spanking sister-site) so for me the role comes hard-wired. I'm a top and in some ways, a bit of a Seme.

HOWEVER
There are limits to how much of a real life can be dominated by one partner. Since the OP post had no clear question I'll just ramble on in my silly manner.

Currently I'm with a girlfriend of over a year (Sorry girls to puncture your fantasies, at the moment I'm swinging hetro - perhaps think of it as dressing on the right rather than the left) and she's a sub in many ways. One of the small flaws in our relationship is she can take it toooo far. Its one thing to be a boss and Seme and controling, its another to dictate everything in a life... I have one mouth and two ears, I don't always do what my partner says but I do ask... and it gets very tiring to hear "I don't know" or "You decide" or "I'll do whatever you want to do" the whole time.
I get fed up of the sound of my own voice in a relationship or just doing what I think will be interesting all the time. The mentality to be a full seme and control and dominate someone outside of a BDSM dungeon and outside of a short or medium length Roleplay isn't often come across.

To sumerise, tl;dr, I'm a dom, a top and a bit of a Seme... but not to the north korean extent. It's exausting enough having to control your own body, let alone two.

EmanGr September 19th, 09 12:16 PM

When it comes to gay sex i'm a virgin. But i'm sure that i'd be the top, because i don't like...you know...inserting things and stereotype-wise i'm the seme (masculine, kinda dark and lone-wolf). But i'd love to be seduced by a confident bottom/uke! Now that i think about it i would do many things as a seme....heh!

Lord of Time September 19th, 09 02:23 PM

Hmmm....Tough one. I prefer to be on top, but I do know when it's time to give my partner his turn. So, I could do either. I think that Seme-Uke stereotypes don't always apply. Most couples could go both ways.

lionoftheredsand September 25th, 09 07:22 AM

I'm easily a selfish bottom, :D poor person who's with me. Spaniking is meh though, I'm more for in the middle or end type with, >.> (has fetish for being bitten/nibbled on.

~Uke~ September 27th, 09 02:51 AM

I am a bottom...I like to be dominated by someone bigger than me. (yet I like guys who are shorter than me) Spanking is more of a spur of the moment thing for me.

leYaoiste November 29th, 09 03:44 PM

i am definitely uke and i luurv to be spanked :D... i can only be seme with a girl as i am bi.

ipaperdoll November 29th, 09 07:40 PM

Bondage uke. :D I love the feeling that I cant do anything under the force of another man. -drools- Being tied up with rope, handcuffs ( no not the furry ones! the pure metal ones. ) xD Also I love to be scratched, Its like a huge turn on for me. >.>

sandyreed November 29th, 09 11:59 PM

Lol, my friend likes to be bitten :S

I'm a virgin, but I'm slightly biased to bottom, as I have 'partaken in sexual activity'.

ipaperdoll November 30th, 09 12:25 AM

:D W00t I love bites. >,..,<

migukuni November 30th, 09 05:17 AM

i love paper-kun

ipaperdoll November 30th, 09 05:53 AM

Hehehehe :D -throws self at migukuni- :O

migukuni November 30th, 09 06:15 AM

i miss you kid... you havent been in our threads for awhile i miss your glomping...

Jonouchi November 30th, 09 08:07 AM

I'm a virgin, so I cannot speak from actual experience on the subject. However, from my views on my own personal fetishes and the many many RPs I have done in the past, there's a very good chance that I am a bottom, almost 100%. I like to submit to my partner, giving him what a top would want to recieve and taking what a top would want to give.

sandyreed November 30th, 09 06:38 PM

Actually, I'm both.

I like to sometimes be in control, considering my *ahem* age.

Hayato December 2nd, 09 07:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jonouchi (Post 4153)
I'm a virgin, so I cannot speak from actual experience on the subject. However, from my views on my own personal fetishes and the many many RPs I have done in the past, there's a very good chance that I am a bottom, almost 100%. I like to submit to my partner, giving him what a top would want to recieve and taking what a top would want to give.

Totally agree, I can't add anything else, though i'm not 100% but like 90% sure

riranor December 2nd, 09 08:45 PM

I prefer being the "uke" of a relationship, my personality is more suited for it, but on certain days i feel more "playful and controlling" and my fiance is more submissive... then our roles switch for the day so i can do both i just prefer uke

imayaoiboy December 3rd, 09 09:15 AM

I am definitely a bottom and an uke. I like taking directions and being on the submissive side, although occasionally wouldn't mind being a top (especially being *directed*...)

jizod January 11th, 10 05:31 AM

I prefer being top...even though when people see me they say im bottom. but then again i have never really experienced being a bottom either :/

spankhappyvampire January 12th, 10 06:05 AM

I'd rather flip a coin and go for it =D

King January 14th, 10 02:28 AM

i like recieving i guess, when it comes to giving it I would spank :eek:

Spyke January 14th, 10 04:57 AM

Bottom, For the win..

Forgive me being blunt but nothing feels better than to bottom..

I took this quiz on "Are you Seme or Uke" And I got "Badass Uke"

Meaning that I usually act like a Seme, but in the bed I am a "power bottom" as the gay's would call it.

o_ o

Hal0 January 14th, 10 07:04 PM

I'm both! :3, i sometimes am so horny that i just have to bottom but other time i rly want to top ;P

CreepyCat February 6th, 10 10:33 PM

Bottom for me that is.

kaidoh February 7th, 10 03:02 PM

top. never tried bottom so I can't tell you for sure lol

Anema February 21st, 10 11:08 PM

I'm a seke leaning toward uke.
I feel like the labels aren't stereotypes.
Instead, they're guidelines one can easily stray from if they want to.
It's never set in stone.. So people who think "Omg, I don't agree with those labels." are simply being closed minded themselves o.O;
I wonder who started that anti-sex-position movement.

Sukisho87 February 22nd, 10 12:26 AM

Ya know, I'm pretty sure I am virsitle. Maybe leaning more toward bottom.

TheBlackStallion October 20th, 10 09:29 PM

I'm a definite top. Something about being in control gets me going. I enjoy being a bottom also, but only if the guy is really good.

DMC7199 October 21st, 10 01:34 AM

I'm both pretty much. Though I usually start off as a bottom.

chojilover October 21st, 10 07:38 PM

never had sex, but I think i'd probably be a bottom (uke) maybe it's because im lazy :)

Lilviscious November 5th, 10 05:15 PM

Whaha, this is quite funny.
I'm more of a seme during foreplay because I love to tease and please, but I turn into an uke during the actual sex. But only if the other one has enough spunk to be my seme ;)

ukeshadow November 6th, 10 01:34 AM

im both but i lean more to uke because i get shy with stuff but with roleplaying im both.

EmanGr November 6th, 10 08:53 AM

I haven't had sex before, just foreplay. As a foreplayer i'm acting more like the top and i kinda know that this is the role for me. So yeah, i'm the seme (at least most of the time)... So... come here my little, cute, slutty uke!! ^_^


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