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Old June 16th, 11, 05:35 AM   #21
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I tell them that unless you're planning to ask me out? It's none of your business. Simple as that.
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Old June 18th, 11, 09:10 AM   #22
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To be fair, i have
a few friends whom are all Bisexual.
So iīve had a safe somewhere to go.

Though im still in doubt about my sexuality.
But i tell everyone who asks - That im just in doubt.

So far everyone im with know that im not certain about
my sexuality -

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Old June 18th, 11, 08:31 PM   #23
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I recently got a new job and i was getting to know my coworker and she was talking about the Pride parade next week in SF and I was telling her how i wanted to go. She started to ask me more questions to find out if I was gay. I usually tell anyone who asks but for some reason I felt weirdly uncomfortable this time... She has a friend who is lesbian but I just didn't feel like telling her lol. I'll probably tell her on Monday!
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Old June 18th, 11, 10:51 PM   #24
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I am bisexual and knew that before I was a double digit age. I was never ashamed to admit it.
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Old June 22nd, 11, 08:35 PM   #25
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I have read the comments here and I agree with most of the users on here. Althought I am straight, many people have doubted my sexuality, (assuming I was a lesbian because I have predominently female friends.)

My thing is if it is someone I know, I tell them to pay attention to my actions and conversations then get back to me.

As for those that I don't know? I make a quick witted remark to get them away from me. When it comes to sexuality, I don't judge and it is not a sensitive topic for me. But, when it is someone I don't know, like or has malicious intents I amd known for being rather sharp tongued.

Normally, if you are assertive and don't back down when confronted by someone you aren't comfortable with this question they back down and get the hint to never ask you that question again. That works for me and my peers.
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Old June 24th, 11, 12:29 AM   #26
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If nice people I ask, I tell "yea I'm gay" but if it's my parents then I don't tell them and lie because I'm not really independent yet and I know their view on homosexuality :/ so yea. But yea don't come out until you're ready and don't force it.
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Old September 19th, 11, 02:13 PM   #27
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i just say it
and if they have a problem with that, its not my problem
and i wouldn't want to live/work somewhere where people have an issue with gay people anyway. no thanks >_>
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Old October 4th, 11, 01:20 AM   #28
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Online, I don't really have a problem with people asking me my sexual orientation. If there is a problem it's easily dealt with.

In real life I tend not to tell people my orientation unless I can safely guess they're reaction.
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Old October 20th, 11, 04:13 AM   #29
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i just say yes when they ask. it gets awkward. Im a student teacher and I had a student ask me if i was gay and i straight up said yes. Theyre like 14 or 15 so its not like they had no idea what gay was. One of the girls even said that her cousin was gay and that she thought it was awesome she had a gay student teacher.
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Old October 25th, 11, 12:46 AM   #30
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If people came up to me and asked if I was gay, I'd probably not respond for a long time and then say something like, "...No" >_>

I really don't know why, cause I thought I was ok with being out. Maybe it's cause I have a billion straight crushes.
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